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Secrets of Physical Attraction

June 9, 2010 by Diana · 1 Comment 

Ever been instantly physically attracted to someone?  Ever wondered why this chemistry happens with some and not others?  Ever wondered what you can do to make others have a physical attraction to you?

It’s easier than you think.

In fact, with just a little effort, you can literally be “beating them off with a stick.”  You don’t have to be drop dead gorgeous, you don’t have to be a size six.  But you do need to remember that how you package yourself is important, because when others first see you, all they have to go on is the physical.

With that in mind, here’s how to create physical attraction whatever your age, shape, or size:

  • Smile

The shortest distance between two people is a smile.  It doesn’t cost anything, and it’s universally understood.  Happy babies and puppies always make friends easily.  So do smiling people.  Remember that.

  • Use Your Eyes

The eyes are “the windows to the soul” because you can reveal so much with just a glance.  Let your gaze linger.  Look away, then look back.  Glance out of the corner of your eye.  Lower your gaze.  Flirt.  You can say so much without saying a word.

  • Move Deliberately

Walk with grace and purpose.  Slide into your seat.  Gently prop your head on your hand.  Listen with interest when others speak.  Move like a panther – never shuffle about like a bum.

  • Play With Your Props

Draw attention to your best features by touching them “absently.”  Toy with your hair.  Finger your necklace.  Rotate a bracelet.  Re-cross your legs.  People will look where you tell them to look with your body language.  Always point them to your best parts.

  • Dress Demurely

Wear clothes that fit properly and modestly showcase your assets.  Don’t show too much, don’t blind ‘em with flesh.  Make them wonder what you’re hiding and make them work to see more.

  • Groom Impeccably

Keep your hairstyle current, your makeup flattering, your perfume discreet.  Most guys prefer touchable hair and natural-looking makeup, so keep it simple and appropriate.

  • Speak Intelligently

Want a smart man?  Be a smart woman.  Keep on top of current events.  Don’t gossip.  Don’t use foul language.  Develop a pleasing voice.

In short, be a lady.

Any woman can wear a short skirt and low-cut top and attract attention from any man with a pulse.  But if you want to create chemistry, an instant physical attraction, try this subtle, mesmerizing approach instead.  You’ll attract a better-quality guy who will work harder to chase you.

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One Response to “Secrets of Physical Attraction”
  1. Sheila says:

    This article is right on target!! Men are always on the hunt, and on the hunt for something special and elusive. How many times have you seen average women have guys falling all over them??

    If I could add anything, I would say that confidence, enjoying the moment, and a certain lack of concern about the outcome of this specific encounter have sizzling attraction. I’ll never forget when I spent some time at the beach with my two teenage daughters last summer. I’m sitting at the pool with wet hair, no make up, average “Mom” tankini, just enjoying a moment without teenage drama. A 30-ish guy starts to talk to me, and I continue the conversation just to entertain myself for the moment. He ends up chasing me all over the resort for the next week! And I could have cared less, I was just looking for a short conversation for entertainment.

    Plus, so many don’t do this . . . you will stand out when you do.

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