Are Looks Important in a Relationship?

From the “Can You Believe This?” Department:

I was surfing the Net the other day and came across a couple of stories that talked about the importance of looks in a relationship — in a way that made my jaw drop.  Here’s why:

#1  You Risked It All for HER?

So a middle-aged man has an affair with one of his 20-something co-workers but calls it quits after just a few weeks.  The girl gets ticked, sends a letter to his wife, and now the marriage is over and the man has been suspended.  A sad – but all-too-familiar – tale, right?Not exactly. Call Me

The male writers on chastise the man for his actions.  Not because he cheated. ..but because he cheated with an ugly woman!  Is this really how men think?!  That it’s okay to cheat if she’s hot, but not if she’s not?  What am I missing here (besides a Y-chromosome)?

What a scary look into the male mind!  Learn from it what you can.


#2  Only Beautiful People Allowed is a dating site for – what else? – beautiful people.  But if you think you qualify and apply, you might want to check your ego at the submit button.  Membership is determined by existing members of the opposite sex who have 48 hours to vote on your looks and decide if you’re attractive enough to join them.


Which countries have the most members?  Sweden, Norway, and Brazil.

Which have the least?  Russia, Poland, and Great Britain.

“Britain is stumbling because they don’t spend as much time polishing up their appearance and they are letting themselves down on physical fitness,” says managing director Greg Hodge in this interview.  “Next to Brazilian and Scandinavian beauties, British people just aren’t as toned and glamorous.”


Lesson learned?  Dating is vicious!  So if you’re venturing forth into the dating world, be sure you know how to dress, how to flirt, and how look beautiful.  It will increase your chances for success.


Diana Pemberton-Sikes is an image consultant and author of Occasion Magic, an ebook that teaches women what to wear for various occasions. If you’d like to receive regular fashion tips from Diana, be sure to sign up for her FREE ezine, the Clothing Chronicles. Diana Pemberton-Sikes

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